Relationships, dating, sex, marriage, self-esteem and much more!
I‘m not a subtle person. And I simply couldn’t be if I tried. True, certain people don’t like me, but there is one facet in their disregard for me that is uniform across the board in my dealings with these spiteful jackasses. They respect me and they stay the hell out of my way. Whether [...]
Saying no is a tall order for many people. They are conditioned to be frightened of the perceived consequence of irreparably damaging a relationship or hurting the other person’s feelings by saying no at the expense of their own comfort. What many people don’t realize is that saying no can actually provide them with a [...]
I hear the same story all the time. Girl meets guy, girl ends up with guy. Girl and guy play house, share rent, the gas bill and a pseudo-promising relationship. Then boom, they break up and 3 months later, the guy marries someone else. I never wait for a man to decide on me. And [...]
Dear Feisty, I love your blog and everything you say I understand, but I was not raised to play games with men and be a “strong” person in my relationships. I’ve been dating a guy for 5 years and we had a baby six months ago. I was terrified of what my body would look [...]
Everybody’s a critic. Especially ourselves. People always have more to say than we want to hear and we’re often never short on opinions or criticism. What’s important for you is knowing for yourself what is true and valid and not allowing others, or yourself, to twist, manipulate and otherwise devalue your own perceptions of who [...]
This is an all-encompassing diagnostic list designed to remedy your most inefficient relationship no-nos. No time like the present to get right down to business: 1. Get real. Who keeps on fumbling here? If you’re the common denominator, time to start changing something. 2. Have more realistic expectations. No more sky-high pies in the sky- [...]
I‘ve been authoring this blog for 1.5 years and despite my outlandish, purposefully theatrical and controversial unique verbage and vocality, I have yet to be called a bitch, a nag, or a feminist (with the exception of this solitary incident of which I ascertained my position as just the opposite). The same can be said [...]
Image courtesy of computerclipart.com I’m sure you’ll be glad to know I’m winding down the “sales pitches” this week and I’m thrilled that things are getting back to normal. Thank you to everyone who signed up and read the chapter! The launch was a big success! ***** I recall a number of instances in my [...]
Great news, Chapter 1 has arrived! I wanted to take this opportunity to discuss some of the details of this very special chapter for those of you who are still on the fence about signing up and getting this thing in your hot little hands. First however, I want to advise those of you who [...]
On Thursday, 3/15/12, I’ll be giving away the first chapter of my highly anticipated book “Be the Woman He’s Never Been With and Can’t Be Without.” Wait a minute, just one chapter? How about the whole thing? Relax, it’ll be here before you know it! But first, here are just a few of the juicy [...]