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Dear Feisty, I’m 32 and my current boyfriend is 36. We’ve been together for a year and I’m starting to notice a number of things about him that I overlooked in the beginning that don’t seem quite right, but I’m not sure if I’m just overreacting. When we started dating he always seemed to be [...]
Valentine’s Day is about romance. It’s about paying tribute to an institution that celebrates the custom of romantic love, courtship and the time-honored tradition of chivalry. That seems to be a very tired concept for a lot of people these days. So it makes perfect sense these very same people don’t possess the taste and [...]
My Twitter stream can seem like a really bad joke. Many of the people on there are well beyond the reach of anything that can be described as normal. There’s no want for variety- you can find just about anyone on Twitter to suit your tastes for whatever purpose. And if you want to find [...]
“If a man says he is not ready to date, does he mean it?” Dear Feisty, My ex and I have been friends for almost 9 years. We’ve had relationships with other people but remained friends. We are both single now and coincidentally, we are both facing huge life-changing experiences. We spend time [...]
Dear Feisty, It all started when I walked into a restaurant and this guy who worked there started talking to me. I’m married, but I liked the attention. Over the next couple months he started flirting with me more and more. I laughed it off and we became friends- and he gave me his [...]
People are facing increasing difficulty expressing themselves- especially in ways that are conducive to maintaining a healthy level of mutual respect in our relationships. A break in communication is often to blame for many of the relationship ills we are confronted with. When we cannot clearly communicate our needs and wants, people fail to understand [...]
I think I die a little bit inside and throw up in mouth every time I hear some asinine foolish woman who’s dying to be in a relationship advocate for being some dude’s FWB. I tried it once and I learned a lot. Not many women know, even remotely, what’s involved in being someone’s footstool, [...]
Putting up with a lot of bullshit lately? I’m not the least bit surprised. To quite a few girls out there, putting up with bullshit seems to come standard with the territory and yes, the entire package- the one they should probably get busy wrapping up and throwing back out to the wolves. Women put [...]
Sex is a given these days. Tell most any man on the dating scene you want to wait to have sex and he’ll likely keel over in anaphylactic shock because he’s developed an acute allergy to the word “no” since he’s completely accustomed to hearing the word “yes”. I personally prefer it to be the [...]
If you want to date and you want real results, you generally have to put forth your best effort. Yet, I’m lessened to believe you’d stand to soil yourself in shock that people in the dating world fight tooth and nail to accept this ideology. They instead insist that pining for all the things that [...]