Today’s post ties into last week’s shenanigans on game-playing. You know, that necessary evil pain in the ass “scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours” BS we find ourselves dealing with on the reg. It seems that people just don’t want to hear the truth- because they want to keep making excuses. They don’t want [...]
People are facing increasing difficulty expressing themselves- especially in ways that are conducive to maintaining a healthy level of mutual respect in our relationships. A break in communication is often to blame for many of the relationship ills we are confronted with. When we cannot clearly communicate our needs and wants, people fail to understand [...]
This is an all-encompassing diagnostic list designed to remedy your most inefficient relationship no-nos. No time like the present to get right down to business: 1. Get real. Who keeps on fumbling here? If you’re the common denominator, time to start changing something. 2. Have more realistic expectations. No more sky-high pies in the sky- [...]
It’s evermore difficult to find true love, and there are many myths and misconceptions in place that prevent us from acquiring the true love we rightfully deserve. For instance, many believe that they can’t help who they fall in love with yet, we often define true love according to what true love is not. Instead [...]
I‘ve been authoring this blog for 1.5 years and despite my outlandish, purposefully theatrical and controversial unique verbage and vocality, I have yet to be called a bitch, a nag, or a feminist (with the exception of this solitary incident of which I ascertained my position as just the opposite). The same can be said [...]
When’s the last time you heard some king douchewad tell you, “Send me some nudes!” I’m guessing it was damn near half past yesterday. I swear, these dudes are eager to ask for nude pictures before it even occurs to them to ask you for your phone number. I remember just a few years ago [...]
We put out vibes. Whether they’re subtle or “in your face”. People can sniff us out and know more about our own motives than we do and some of us are professing to the world we’re not ready for a relationship. Here’s how: 1. You’re too busy rehashing a previous relationship. Baggage City = Population [...]
Men are black and white. They are plain as day. It’s like watching a bald eagle trace his feathers into the blue sky. It’s impossible not to notice them being direct. They are thorough and never too complex and they’re nothing if not reliable. I can read my husband like Green Eggs and Ham. Stop [...]
Relationships aren’t rocket science. Yet we’re inclined to argue otherwise based on how many people are hard-pressed to find a relationship. Ask anybody who’s been in a successful relationship for any number of years about the key ingredient to their success. They’d tell you it’s as simple as wanting to be there. They are showing [...]
I read a detailed memoir written by a woman who described herself in a tragic affair with a married man as being “the most beautiful and fulfilling experience of her life”. She insisted that “every woman is missing out should she never experience this kind of magical, perfect romance at least once.” Funny, I always [...]