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There is a symbiotic association between toxic people and their addiction to toxic relationships. Whether they are romantic, the co-dependent addiction feeder/pusher type, or the superficial “I’ll scratch your ass if you wipe mine” pseudo-friendships people hang onto for appearance sake in keeping up with the Joneses. A toxic relationship cannot subsist without some type [...]
I‘m not a subtle person. And I simply couldn’t be if I tried. True, certain people don’t like me, but there is one facet in their disregard for me that is uniform across the board in my dealings with these spiteful jackasses. They respect me and they stay the hell out of my way. Whether [...]
Valentine’s Day is about romance. It’s about paying tribute to an institution that celebrates the custom of romantic love, courtship and the time-honored tradition of chivalry. That seems to be a very tired concept for a lot of people these days. So it makes perfect sense these very same people don’t possess the taste and [...]
I hear the same story all the time. Girl meets guy, girl ends up with guy. Girl and guy play house, share rent, the gas bill and a pseudo-promising relationship. Then boom, they break up and 3 months later, the guy marries someone else. I never wait for a man to decide on me. And [...]
My Twitter stream can seem like a really bad joke. Many of the people on there are well beyond the reach of anything that can be described as normal. There’s no want for variety- you can find just about anyone on Twitter to suit your tastes for whatever purpose. And if you want to find [...]
“If a man says he is not ready to date, does he mean it?” Dear Feisty, My ex and I have been friends for almost 9 years. We’ve had relationships with other people but remained friends. We are both single now and coincidentally, we are both facing huge life-changing experiences. We spend time [...]
***** I don’t know everything. But I know a little. 34 years has shoved a sizable piece of the life experience/relationship pie down my throat. What I know is from personal experience- what I divulge I’ve seen firsthand in some form or another. Whether it is heartbreak, humiliation, game-playing, great sex ending in regrettable decisions [...]
Quick update on the Confidence package giveaway: As many of you know, I’ve suffered a rather large setback this week losing data here on the site (hence the total revamping) and I’ve spent the last 5 days getting things back on track. The giveaway launch will now take place on 5/28. I will be publishing [...]
Dear Feisty, It all started when I walked into a restaurant and this guy who worked there started talking to me. I’m married, but I liked the attention. Over the next couple months he started flirting with me more and more. I laughed it off and we became friends- and he gave me his [...]
Today’s post ties into last week’s shenanigans on game-playing. You know, that necessary evil pain in the ass “scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours” BS we find ourselves dealing with on the reg. It seems that people just don’t want to hear the truth- because they want to keep making excuses. They don’t want [...]