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Are You Second Rate? Why He Chose Her Instead of You

I hear the same story all the time. Girl meets guy, girl ends up with guy. Girl and guy play house, share rent, the gas bill and a pseudo-promising relationship. Then boom, they break up and 3 months later, the guy marries someone else. I never wait for a man to decide on me. And [...]

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Sure Signs a Man is Crazy About You

Men are pretty straightforward in relationships. And despite what women want to believe to suit their egos and agendas, it’s a rare phenomenon that you ever have to read between the lines to know the truth about men. There are usually no in-betweens either. Through the course of any given relationship men are found to [...]

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Relationship Limbo – When Should You Pack Up Your Ovaries?

Quick update on the Confidence package giveaway: As many of you know, I’ve suffered a rather large setback this week losing data here on the site (hence the total revamping) and I’ve spent the last 5 days getting things back on track. The giveaway launch will now take place on 5/28. I will be publishing [...]

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How Do I Step Up My Game?

  Dear Feisty, It all started when I walked into a restaurant and this guy who worked there started talking to me. I’m married, but I liked the attention. Over the next couple months he started flirting with me more and more. I laughed it off and we became friends- and he gave me his [...]

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Communication Dodgers Ego Boners and Outright Lies

Today’s post ties into last week’s shenanigans on game-playing. You know, that necessary evil pain in the ass “scratch my back and I’ll scratch yours” BS we find ourselves dealing with on the reg. It seems that people just don’t want to hear the truth- because they want to keep making excuses. They don’t want [...]

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A Rift in the Chain of Communication – When What We Say Actually Hurts Us

People are facing increasing difficulty expressing themselves- especially in ways that are conducive to maintaining a healthy level of mutual respect in our relationships. A break in communication is often to blame for many of the relationship ills we are confronted with. When we cannot clearly communicate our needs and wants, people fail to understand [...]

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What Do You Do When He Pisses You Off?

Image courtesy of computerclipart.com I’m sure you’ll be glad to know I’m winding down the “sales pitches” this week and I’m thrilled that things are getting back to normal. Thank you to everyone who signed up and read the chapter! The launch was a big success! ***** I recall a number of instances in my [...]

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7 Reasons I’m Never Going to Have Sex With You

Sex is a given these days. Tell most any man on the dating scene you want to wait to have sex and he’ll likely keel over in anaphylactic shock because he’s developed an acute allergy to the word “no” since he’s completely accustomed to hearing the word “yes”.  I personally prefer it to be the [...]

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Cardinal Mistakes That Make Women Undateable

If you want to date and you want real results, you generally have to put forth your best effort. Yet, I’m lessened to believe you’d stand to soil yourself in shock that people in the dating world fight tooth and nail to accept this ideology. They instead insist that pining for all the things that [...]

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