Great news, Chapter 1 has arrived!
I wanted to take this opportunity to discuss some of the details of this very special chapter for those of you who are still on the fence about signing up and getting this thing in your hot little hands.
First however, I want to advise those of you who did sign up before today’s release that my email service will be delivering the chapter to you within the next 24 hours. There are some kinks I had to work through that have caused a slight delay. If you’ve already signed up and for some reason you do not receive the chapter, shoot me a quick email via my contact form and I’ll get it out to you pronto.
You may have read my last post concerning the rest of the book and I hinted that today I was planning to spill the beans on Chapter 1, so I’ll get right to it…
I call the chapter: “Looks Get Him to Notice – Being Extraordinary Gets Him to Do Everything Else”.
I’ve included the following quotes to give you an idea as to what you’re bound to enjoy and discover:
“One harsh albeit useful lesson life has taught me is that I have never and will never earn any true love, admiration or respect from any man just because of the way I look.”
People, women especially, are hung up on their looks. Looks are the be all and end all of what makes a person valuable and important. Or are they?
Here I strip looks right down to the bare skeleton because I’m sick and tired of all the shame and disillusionment we are often faced with because we aren’t “perfect”. We aren’t “worthy” and “we are never going to find a relationship”.
Guess what? I’m not perfect and I’m not gorgeous. I’ve never been a swimsuit model and I have never tried out for the Raiderettes. And yet, I’ve been happily married for 11 years.
So perhaps it may just be that looks aren’t so important after all. I’ll let you read the chapter and decide for yourself.
“We often meet people and think they’re dynamite all wrapped up neatly in the dog’s silk pajamas as far as aesthetic attractiveness, until they open their mouth and air their personality (or lack thereof) and we are destined to close them off forever.”
Now how many times has this happened to you? I can tell you how many times it’s happened to me- more times than I care to remember.
Pretty soon you’re on a date with that uber mysterious super hot chick/dude and pretty soon it’s you minus “El Douche/La Douchette of the Year” minus a couple of twenties and a ride home.
Here I explain how appearances won’t seal the deal, especially in light of the fact that everything else is a wash.
“She knew so much about men, much more than I could possibly fathom. Like a wild cat hunting its prey, she was always on the prowl, scratching to find out more- all the while giving herself a very healthy advantage over many other women. Even those who were much more physically attractive.”
I know men and I know how they operate. I also know that I have the confidence to go out and discover a lot more and in doing so, I can use it to my advantage- where other women are destined to lose out of willful neglect.
Here I explain, in essence, how to pay close attention. You’re never going to learn anything about men if you’re not willing to take notes and listen.
“The right woman can show a man things he’s never seen before- that compel him to bring to fruition what he never thought possible. Deb and only a few other women I’ve known throughout my life were able to do this, and not one of them was “cover girl beautiful”.
That’s correct- the right woman doesn’t have to rely on looks to get the job done- the job being making a man’s head spin completely out of control in excitement and anticipation.
By the way, Deb was an acquaintance of mine, of whom I witnessed work her absolute magic around an endless array of men. I still have yet to meet another woman like Deb. She was my inspiration and to this day, I still delight in remembering her do what I had only dreamed of- until now.
Look, I could go on and on all day, hammering out quotes, telling you all about Deb and giving you bit by bit, inch by inch. But that isn’t going to suffice for reading this absolutely explosive chapter.
I urge you not to miss it, especially if you’re ready to try something new! You know what to do.